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Balancing Life, Can It Really Be Done?

  • Writer: Amber Dobkins
    Amber Dobkins
  • Dec 31, 2025
  • 4 min read

Life has a way of demanding more from us at times.

Whether it's a loved one needing extra support, a project consuming all our focus, or a situation pulling us in every direction, we inevitably face moments when we must give more energy than we feel we have to spare.


During these intense periods, life can feel wildly out of balance—even chaotic. It's natural to lean into this imbalance and make things work. The problem is that the chaos becomes our normal when it was meant to be temporary. Prolonged periods in a state of chaos can lead to chronic stress, burnout, and frustration.


The truth is, perfect balance is a myth. Sometimes, we must make sacrifices and pour ourselves into something or someone because it's necessary or deeply meaningful. However, when the scales tip too far for too long, it's a clear signal that something needs to change. The key is learning how to recognize when we’re out of balance and having the courage to take action.



Recognizing the Red Flags of Imbalance


When life feels overwhelming, it’s easy to ignore the warning signs that you’ve been giving too much for too long:


  • Persistent fatigue or depleted energy

  • Heightened irritability or emotional sensitivity

  • Difficulty to focus or maintain motivation

  • Growing resentment towards the person, project, or situation demanding your energy

  • Neglect of personal needs, relationships, or passions


These are all signs that your body and mind is telling you that it’s time to pause and reevaluate.



Reevaluate and Reflect


When you notice these signs of imbalance, it's time to step back and ask yourself some important questions:


  • What's the root cause of this imbalance? Is it temporary or an ongoing issue?

  • What do I need right now? Rest? Support? A shift in priorities?

  • What can I do differently? Identify one small step that could help shift things back into alignment.


This process of reflection can be uncomfortable because it often requires brutal honesty with yourself. You might realize that significant changes are necessary, and change almost always requires stepping boldly outside your comfort zone.




How to Stop Overgiving


If you want things to improve, doing what you’ve always done won’t work. Change requires bold action. This might mean establishing firm boundaries with energy vampires, seeking help on overwhelming projects instead of doing everything alone, or even letting go of commitments that no longer align with your core values.


Stepping into the unknown is scary. It might feel awkward or deeply uncomfortable at first. But staying stuck in an unbalanced state will only prolong the problem—and the stress that comes with it.




The Power of Realignment


When you take steps to realign your life, you’ll begin to feel more grounded and in control again. Balance doesn’t mean everything is perfect; it means you’re giving your energy to what truly matters while still taking care of yourself. It’s about finding harmony between giving and receiving, between doing and being.


Life will always have moments of imbalance—it’s part of being human. But when those moments stretch on for too long, give yourself permission to pause, reflect, and make a change. You possess the power to craft a life that's genuinely fulfilling—not just a chaotic whirlwind.


So today, gently ask yourself:


  • Where in your life are you feeling out of balance?

  • What small step can you take to begin shifting back towards balance?

  • And most importantly—what action will you take today to realign yourself with your deepest desires?


Your well-being is worth it! Sometimes we need a little help getting back on track. A guide or system can be very beneficial. We recommend trying a 10-day energy cleanse. It's the perfect amount of time to create healthy habits and reset your energy so you can find that balance and inner peace.



Starting an Energy Cleanse


To begin your energy cleanse, start by selecting a few topics and habits you'd like to focus on over the next 10 days. Set aside 30 minutes each day to dedicate to yourself and your well-being. Planning your energy cleanse may take some effort, and if your energy is running low, it can feel overwhelming. If that’s the case, we recommend using the 10-Day Energy Cleanse workbook to guide and support you through the process. It's a step by step guide that leads you back to the basics -- the simple techniques that help you call your energy back.


Through daily practices, you'll learn to:


  • Develop habits that nourish your mind and body

  • Release negative thought patterns and depleting emotions that hold you back

  • Invite more gratitude, self-compassion, and joy into your life


Whether you are a seasoned seeker aiming to reignite your transformational practices or a newcomer eager to explore energy work, the 10-Day Energy Cleanse offers a path to reconnecting with your authentic self.​


By the end of this cleanse, you'll have a personalized plan to maintain your new habits and continue on your path to a more balanced, fulfilling life. The guided workbook includes scientifically-backed energy healing techniques, guided meditations, and access to a supportive community network.


You're not alone in this journey. Every step you take towards balance is a step closer to living a life that truly reflects your values and aspirations. Be gentle with yourself, and know that you have the strength to create the harmony you desire.





 
 
 

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